Dear Finn,
It is Wednesday.
Which means we leave for Uganda in four days time.
Five nights until I kiss your sweet face.
Five afternoons I must distract myself.
And then, then my dear sweet one, you will be in our arms.
I will cover you with kisses from head to toe.
We will rock you to sleep that night.
I will fight your daddy to hold you. All. day. long.
You will steal our hearts and it will be like you were always with us.
We will be three.
Perfect. Complete.
I had stopped keeping track of how long we had left because I couldn't think of anything else.
So I made a resolution to finish my projects and then I could daydream as much as I fancied.
It lasted for about a day.
In the end, I always find myself right back where I started, staring off into the distance.
Catching a glance at a calendar.
Counting down in my head.
Dreaming of you.
I love you my little man.
Your daddy and I are coming for you just as fast as we can.
Much love.
Mommy
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- Abi Q
- My husband man and I currently live in a snug little apartment in the east bay with our pup, Lexi Louanne and little man, Finley. We like coffee, we like pie, we like desert at three in the morning and for breakfast too... that is why we're perfect together. ..enjoy our story..
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Who we are:
My husband man and I currently live in a snug little apartment in the east bay with our two pups, Lexi Louanne and Mr Mogley Winchester. We like coffee, we like pie, we like desert at three in the morning and for breakfast too... that is why we're perfect together... {be warned: I ramble sometimes } ...during the summer last June husband man and I embarked on a journey to Kampala, Uganda and worked at an orphanage while there. We held the babies, bathed the babies, played with the babies...and promptly fell in love..... since then we have been preparing to become parents to a little one, and just this past week we submitted our application to adopt a baby! {or shall I say toddler?} We have no idea if it'll be a boy or a girl, or what age our baby will be... but as frustrating as it is, it is half the fun as well... we're figuring out names for both, I'm decorating two kinds of baby rooms in my head, and pretty much obsessing over all things baby...that is why I have this blog. An open journal for me to write down all my thoughts, pretty ramblings, letters to our lovely baby as we wait, and document all the things I will dress baby in and buy baby when I finally hold him/her in my arms.. ..enjoy our story..
Timeline to baby
10.25.09 We tell our parents we're adopting
10.31.09 We send off our home study application & I contact Sanyu to be put on the waiting list
11.01.09 Even though we were going to wait to tell the rest the family, I can't help it and we announce it to everyone.
11.16.09 I drive to agency to pick up our home study paperwork because I can't wait even an extra day
12.15.09 We finish all our paperwork and mail it off
01.05.10 Our first meeting with our social worker
01.14.10 Our second meeting with our social worker
01.22.10 Find out from Sanyu we're #3 on the waiting list!
03.19.10 We getting a letter from Sanyu saying that American's aren't being matched with children until issue with US and Uganda is cleared up.
04.05.10 We send off I600a form to government, believing God that we are supposed to adopt from Uganda still
04.15.10 Tax day! We get good news in the mail, our home study is done. Now.. just waiting on our final fingerprinting appointment!
04.16.10 Email from our agency with a link to a US government website & it looks like things may finally be clearing up...
05.18.10 We hear of other orphanages in Uganda that have children available for adoption! Grandpa goes to go check them out.
05.20.10 We find out about a new lawyer who we haven't heard of before. I contact people who have worked closely with her. They all rave about how amazing she is. I email her.
06.10.10 Our lawyer tells us she has matched two families yesterday, and will do the same for us if we want her to.
06.22.10 I600a fingerprinting. We are so close to being done on the US side I can feel it
06.29.10 I mail our first packet off to Uganda so they can start getting our paperwork ready in Africa. Now, all we need is a baby.
07.19.10 The two babies we thought might be ours fell through, our lawyers start to search for other orphanages that might have available children.
07.22.10 We get word that our lawyer will be traveling 500 km on the 27th to speak to a new children's home in search of our baby!
08.01.10 We hear that they have found us two little boys. We just have to wait on files and then we have to decide which baby we want.
08.11.10 11:25pm We get the letter we have been waiting for. We have a son!
09.14.10 The trip to get our son begins. Tomorrow we shall have pictures finally!
09.15.10 Godfrey brings our baby to live with his family in Kampala until we come for court.
09.17.10 We get a picture of our sweet little man. I cry hysterically in a gas station lot on I5. You are perfect in every way.
09.30.10 We have a court date! Three weeks from today you will be in our arms. Planning. Packing. Crying. Can't believe it's finally happening.
10.17.10 We leave for Africa!
10.19.10 We meet Finley.
10.20.10 We travel to Mbarara for court.
10.21.10 We have our court hearing and are granted guardianship the same day!
11.04.10 Ryan goes back home to work.
11.08.10 Visa appointment.
11.12.10 We get our Visa!
11.14.10 We come home!!!!
10.03.11 Finley is 100%, officially ours.
11 comments:
counting down the days with you...oh my....its almost time!!
You are in my prayers as you prepare to journey to your son. I'm not familiar with your adoption process so I was happily surprised when I learned you would be travelling so soon after receiving your referral.
I have been approved to do a concurrent China adoption before my first one is complete. I hope to identify my child soon (off the Special Needs List) and be able to travel this summer.
I hope we can hook up when the time is right. I, too, live in the East Bay.
Oh my, such a very short time and you will have your sweet litle one in your arms. Does that mean he comes home when you come back?
Abi,
I've been following your blog but haven't commented before now. Just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and thinking of you as you travel to bring Finn home. I've been following your mom's blog and corresponding with her since December 2008. Our family looks very similar to yours (a few more adoptions to go for us!) and my oldest son and his wife are adopting too! Can't wait to see the photos of you holding baby Finn!
Love and blessings,
Teresa
www.journeytojeremiah.blogspot.com
Only a couple of more nights sleeping without a mommy and daddy...only a couple more!! Mimi cannot wait to see you in your mommy and daddy's arms! Yippee Jesus!! I keep crying thinking about it....soon - one less orphan!! wooohoooo
Abi, I am in tears right now thinking you will be holding your baby boy in just a couple days! Words can't describe how happy I am for you guys, and how excited I am. Praying for safe travels and a smooth trip!!!
Prayes today!! So So excited for you! Cant wait to see pictures!!!
just saw your twitter that you have your sweet baby boy on your lap! Praising God!
In Christ
janet and gang
I haven't stopped by in a while and what a wonderful surprise to see that you are traveling to your Finley!
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!
Prayers for you all on this beautiful journey!
So excited for you and can't wait to see the pictures!
Okay, I can't wait anymore! Can't help myself, had to post even though I'm just a stranger on the other side of the World. I check in here daily to see if you've posted details and perhaps pictures...
Hope you are having a lovely time bonding with your precious child.
Jennette (regular reader of your mom's blog)
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